Creating Experiences for Readers: An Interview with Andrea J. Stein

Author Andrea J. Stein has a lot to celebrate this fall! Her second novel, Dear Eliza, launched in October, and I’m certain her many fans were eagerly awaiting its release. Those fans loved her first novel, Typecast, citing the “amazing characters” and “brilliantly balanced” storyline, among other attributes. This second book is seeing glowing reviews…

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Twenty: Make a Difference

Dear Aaron, Late in the day on October 30, 2004, labor pains for your impending birth began. That evening, which was beggar’s night in Kettering, I sat on the front stoop, clutching my tightening belly as I passed out candy to the neighborhood children. The pains had been strong enough to send me to the…

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Quick Tip: Hold a Hand

My mother went nonverbal pretty early in her Alzheimer’s journey, which meant much of the time I was with her, I either held a conversation with myself or said nothing. Sometimes we’d walk down the hallway, hand in hand, and I would point out the window at the end. We’d look at the trees, the…

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Bringing Conversations Into the Fore: An Interview with Paulette Stout

Author Paulette Stout and I first crossed paths years ago via a Facebook group, and since then, I’ve been surreptitiously keeping up with her. Paulette “considers herself a rhythm writer, using pacing to craft momentum, tension, and sticky reading experiences” and a “wordsmith who reveres the written word.” That’s probably why readers are singing praises,…

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Quick Tip: Change the Subject

Over the last five years, I’ve spent a lot of time with people with dementia. I’ve also spent a lot of time with family and friends of those living with dementia. Countless conversations have filtered to my ears, and the greatest lesson I’ve learned there is not to argue with someone who has dementia. Now,…

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Saga of the Great Toe, Part III

The last time I wrote about my great toe was way back in February 2013, long before I had this site. Then, I mostly wrote about whatever my day involved, and you, lucky readers, got to ride along. Now I know a few of you steadfast warriors made the jump with me from Heptadecagon, and…

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Quick Tip: Tailor Your Responses

Today’s quick tip was inspired by something Tallulah Willis said about her father, Bruce. As those who’ve spent any time with people living with dementia know, each day is never the same. Sometimes, our loved ones will be chatty; other times, they refuse to speak. Some days involve plenty of smiles and the next day…

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