Today’s quick tip was inspired by something Tallulah Willis said about her father, Bruce. As those who’ve spent any time with people living with dementia know, each day is never the same. Sometimes, our loved ones will be chatty; other times, they refuse to speak. Some days involve plenty of smiles and the next day can be nothing but frowns. Tallhulah said, “But whatever kind of day it is, my family and I meet him where he’s at.”

Yes, that’s exactly what Bruce Willis and everyone else living with dementia needs because as difficult as it is for us to watch our loved ones succumb to disease, it’s just as difficult for the person going through it.

And so, I encourage you to approach each day with an open mind and let go of expectations. Every day can bring something new or different. Listen, learn, and tailor your responses to your loved one’s needs.

You’ll be happy you did.